As a death and grief doula, I can offer a myriad of services to help you navigate life's end.
I provide compassionate, open dialogue with my clients about their journey. Through honest conversations, I will help them articulate their desires, address any fears, and craft an end-of-life plan that ensures the dying process aligns with their values and preferences. My goal is to support my clients in living fully until the very end, honoring their lives in a way that brings peace and fulfillment.
Companionship and space-holding are at the heart of death doula work. My vigil services include emotional support, curated music, readings, and gentle companionship such as handholding and active listening during the end-of-life journey. It's a privilege to provide respite and compassionate care for both caregivers and those who are dying. In this capacity, I attend to the many non-medical needs of the dying, including emotional, spiritual, and logistical support.
If needed, we can discuss additional caregiving services such as feeding, bathing, changing, and administering medication, which I have experience in from my time at the *Lily House.
Honoring someone can be a powerful and healing part of the dying and grieving process. Together, we can create a lasting tribute that reflects your or their unique spirit (before or after a death).
When it comes to legacy and memorialization projects, the imagination is the limit. Whether you have a clear vision or need help brainstorming ideas, I am here to support you in creating something that feels meaningful and authentic.
Ritual is important in the early hours and days after the moment of death. My after-death care support includes tender rituals such as gently bathing a loved one with water infused with essential oils, dressing them in their favorite clothes, and laying them in honor surrounded by flowers, candles, and personal mementos. We might also play music, sing songs, and read poetry or scripture based on your needs and desires. Creating a shrouding ceremony can be an especially meaningful and loving last act of after-death care.
These rituals allow time and space to honor the person who has died and can inspire feelings of love, connectedness, and gratitude for those remaining, supporting the ongoing grieving process and helping to integrate the loss.
In the days and weeks after a death, the sheer number of tasks that must be handled — all while navigating fresh grief, is often overwhelming. I offer hands-on support to help alleviate stress.
Whether you're a family member, executor, or close friend, I can assist with a range of practical matters, including: